
Originally Posted by
KPM
My brother is 52-and he has worked his whole life-since 15. He is a professional musician and for the last 25 years a union carpet layer.....he has not worked steady since mid 2007.
He has a son in college, he has normal bills like everyone and his wife has worked full time for 20 years...."he has done everything in his power" to stay above bankruptcy for the last 5 years
The last 2 years work has been non-existent for him-he got unemployment (and in the past he would not take unemployment because he is a little futher to the right in his thinking and he felt it was like "welfare" which I tried time and time again to tell him it was not-but if you are out of steady work for a prolonged time you see it differently) In 2004 he had knee surgery... 2009 back surgery.....thru his union jobs he has contributed to a pension for his retirement-(like you in your planning for your retirement) He has made some money as a musician but like the carpet work clubs are not having as much live music on a regular basis-DJS and jukebox are the norms now.
He has seen a major set back in his life-through no fault of his own-like untold tens of millions in this nation and he is unsure of his future (like I said earlier Regular Joes who built this country over the last 70 years) and he thought he had PREPARED.....based upon the information he had at hand.
He did not go to college-I have spoke many times of my fathers suicide which set in motion my mothers haphazard life of many husbands and constant flux that did not include making sure we went to college. He finished HS and went staight to work....as did I (I took some college after I went to work but never got a degree.)
Everything any of my family have accomplished has been on individual effort ....no rich family, no father looking to help, no secure home life...that is not to mention the mental number that suicide can inflict upon your thought process (and believe me some will say "it should have no affect" suck it up and forget it".....as Elvis said "they know not what they speak...they have not walked in that mans shoes nor seen thru his eyes")
So to recap-my bro went straight to work out of high school, saved, had a pension through his employment, planned for his future based upon the facts he had at hand and now all that is MUTE. SS and Medicare were a big part of his plan-as 78% of all people polled said it was for them.
He played by the rules, he paid his taxes, he contributed to our society as a good citizen and did not ever in nearly 35 years of occasional layoffs or slowdowns even collect unemployment insurance when he could have.......until now.
You have to see that the majority of people who are not working or are under employed....are not deadbeats.
Yes there are some people who do not want to work, who have not planned properly or at all-but with all due respect good people from all parties, religions and colors are in huge financial crisis that did exactly what you say you are doing today.
There are good people of all parties, religions and colors who are disabled-they are not deadbeats.
Not everyone is out to take what they can-there are true legitimate people of all parties, religions and colors who get some govenment help...not as a choice but thru true need, true conditions that are out of their control.
My son was brain damaged at birth thru a botched delivery we could not sue because we were told until the age of 8 he was just slow and the doctor died who delivered him.........my son was screened by SS doctors and they said he would never progress past 8-10 mentally, he would always be dependent on the government. He got SSI at 8 and we worked hard to understand how to help him go beyond 8-10, about brain trauma, auditory processing disfunction, short and long term memory problems etc.....those extra funds gave us money to help him "progress" that we would not have had at the time.
Long story short today he works for a hospital is a floor tech specialist-and has been off of SSI since 2005 he got a drivers license in 2007.. Not everyone who gets help just takes forever.
We wanted him self sufficient, he got help and that help let him go beyond the predictions of the doctors who tested him.
He will never be a high wage earner, he can not take advantage of free schooling to become a nurse, or lab tech thru the hospitals program he is still limited severly-but he is contributing to this country.
Not everyone who gets help-is a deadbeat who intends on living forever off the government.