KPM- Ken, thats a long time , Congrats for the 39 years being together , wow, my parents been married 37 years, they were in a long distance relationship before they got married , but it worked well for them, and stay together. lots of ups and downs as many long term married couples have , but they made it alright.
Kajo, yes its true, long distance sometimes work sometimes dont, i think its more like many things in life, if you have the will there is a way. He will fly to see me here next month

soo excited.. and look forward to it. thank you for your kinds words. Likewise, I wish the best for you both , Cheers..
