I'm with you 100% Jen. A forum is no place to play "I know more than you do" and that's what half of these threads have been most of this year. I miss a lot of the old good posters too. But you know what Jen? None of us can get hurt unless we let ourselves get too over-sensitve. I hadn't realized until now that I finally learned to "detach" from posts that used to cause me hurt. People who pick on you aren't friends so what have you lost?